Decide or Not

Decide or Not

On every single moment of life we need to decide something. More than 80% of the time we can’t decide. But mind it there is nothing which you can not decide or you need not to decide. At least you have to decide that you will not decide anything.
Then what to do – Some times it’s better that you decide to not to decide, Or in other words to decide not to take any action. This is very painful situation. You are in doubt that whether your decision will prove right or wrong. Please keep in mind that there is nothing like right or wrong.
Your decision is your decision, so you should be ready to accept the results. Normally we ask somebody , to whom we trust. Certainly there is no harm to ask for help in your decisions. But finally you have to take the decision.
If you follow systematic approach then there are more chances that your decision will give you expected results.
What can we do –
First and foremost thing decide that whether you are going to take any action or not
1. Keep you eyes closed and think, whatever first thought you get listen to that

2. Then Take a paper , calculate both the actions , write down whatever you feel.
3. Ones you finish and feel exhausted, read all the things 4/5 times, do not add anything
4. Again without looking at the paper repeat the exercise 2 times.
And it’s done ,

Now take a decision which is nearer to your expectation. Then forget about it
Do not regret to your decisions,
If you feel guilty after taking decision , the accept it that you are guilty and move ahead.
(Most of the times people say that Do not regret to your decisions , We take it in different maner and never accept our guilt, this is not fare, If you are guilty.. you are )
Some time it’s require to take fast decision follow the step 1 only, practice it.
Practice it with the decisions which you have already taken, It works. Believe me,

By the way it’s your decision to take it or not